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The Do's & Don'ts of Online Dating

From the Show: Staying Well
Summary: Dating online? Having cyber-security awareness can create a more positive experience for you and contribute to a better online community.
Air Date: 9/6/13
Duration: 10
Host: Melanie Cole, MS
Guest Bio: Laurie Davis
Laurie DavisLaurie Davis is the author of Love @ First Click: The Ultimate Guide to Online Dating and founder of eFlirt Expert, an online dating consultancy. Her company helps singles navigate flirting and relationships via technology by writing their online dating profiles, decoding their dates' text messages, managing their digital dating lives, and helping them transition to meaningful, offline relationships. Laurie was nominated Best Dating Coach in the 2013 and 2012 iDate Awards and her advice has been featured in over 300 international media outlets including the New York Times, Good Morning America, Forbes, Men's Health and Elle. She is engaged to her tweetheart who she eFlirted with in 140 characters on Twitter.
  • Book Title: Love @ First Click: The Ultimate Guide to Online Dating
The Do's & Don'ts of Online Dating
Why is it so hard to meet someone special these days?

Really, meeting the right person can seem to be a full-time job. In the world of broadband everything, there is a general acceptance for the use of online dating websites and services. Online dating can be a great dating tool, as long as you are smart and know the safety precautions.

Statistics show that over 40 million people in the U.S. have tried online dating in 2013, and the lucrative business has grossed in the billions.

Online dating services generally require you to disclose personal information. The feared "about me" section can be more challenging to write than your resume. This information can be re-disclosed... not only to prospective dates, but to data aggregators who use your information for reasons unrelated to online dating, without your consent. There are other potential risks such as reputational damage, scammers or "cat fishing" and sexual predators, when you enter the world on online dating.

Having cyber-security awareness will create a more positive experience for you and contribute to a better online community.

So, what are the questions you need to ask yourself before writing your profile?

Laurie Davis is the author of, Love @ First Click: The Ultimate Guide to Online Dating and the founder of eFlirt Expert, an online dating consultancy. Laurie teaches you the digital dating essentials: how to choose the right site, create a powerful profile and the important steps in cyber safety.