4 Dirty Secrets that Happen after Marriage

From the Show: HER
Summary: Does your relationship change after you say "I do"?
Air Date: 12/11/14
Duration: 10
Host: Michelle King Robson and Pamela Peeke, MD
Guest Bio: Evangelina Hemphill, Marriage Expert
Evangelina Hemphill Utilizing her more than 15 years of experience consulting and coaching with multi-billion dollar corporations and other leading organizations, Evangelina Hemphill, industrial engineer turned relationship consultant, is a sought-after speaker, author, and marriage expert who helps coupled stop just being married in favor of having a "Lifelong World Class Love Affair" with their spouses for an amazing life together.

Today, Evangelina focuses on leveraging her expertise to help women who have busy lives and are top performers, except in their relationships with their husbands. Her mission is to teach women how to co-create their desired relationship in order to have this Lifelong World Class Love Affair for an amazing life together.

No cookie-cutter or "one size fit all" type of marriage, either; but true Happily Ever After for every couple, tailor-made. Evangelina truly believes women should not tolerate anything less than the best life has to offer.
And, with the unique experience of having been a top-performing industrial engineer in corporate America, managing multi-million dollar projects, coaching and training others while being a wife and mother, Evangelina understand what it takes to be a successful business woman and knows just how to make your relationship exciting and passionate for the long term.

Evangelina's work has garnered praise and recognition from USA, Canada, South Africa, and the United Kingdom. Her expertise and level of confidentiality has built trust with individuals and organizations.
4 Dirty Secrets that Happen after Marriage
The anticipation leading up to your wedding can be a happy and exciting time for you and your partner.

Even though the planning may seem exhausting, you're probably still counting down the days until you exchange your vows.

But, what happens after the wedding? Does your relationship go back to pre-engaged habits or does something new appear in your lives?

Unfortunately, the marriages you see in romantic comedies don't really show you the truth. Marriage is work, and if you plan on staying true ''til death do us part," you and your partner may have to find a way to co-exist without driving each other up the wall.

So, why do relationships change after couples say "I do"?

Whether you've lived with your partner while you were engaged or not, you still need to get used to mixing your habits with his or hers. If you're used to doing something a certain way, it may not be the way your partner gets things done. You both need to be able to find a way to live in the same space while adapting to one another.

What are the four dirty little secrets that can change after marriage?
  • Self-awareness
  • Communication
  • Intimacy
  • Sex
What else do you need to know about what happens to your life after walking down the aisle?

Marriage expert, Evangelina Hemphill, discusses the four dirty secrets that happen after you exchange your vows, as well as how to maintain a happy, healthy relationship that will last.